Tea Dating Advice

Ingabe sithandana nomfana ofanayo? Cela umphakathi wethu wabesifazane ongaziwa ukuthi wenze isiqiniseko sokuthi usuku lwakho luphephile, hhayi i-catfish, futhi alukho ebudlelwaneni.

Usuvele uswayiphela amadethi ku-Tinder, Bumble, Match, noma Hinge? Itiye wuhlelo lokusebenza okufanele ube nalo, elisiza abesifazane ukuthi bagweme amafulegi abomvu ngaphambi kwedethi yokuqala enezeluleko zokuthandana, futhi libabonise ukuthi ubani ngempela osemuva kwephrofayela yomuntu abathandana naye.

Abesifazane bangabuza umphakathi wendawo, ongaziwa ngamadoda endaweni yangakubo ukuze babone ukuthi owesilisa uphephile futhi baphendule umbuzo othi “ingabe sithandana nomfana ofanayo” (awdtsg). Amaqembu e-Facebook dating ayinto yesikhathi esedlule. Futhi asisekho isidingo sezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza ezifana ne-NSOPW, Beenverified, ne-People Looker—Itiye linazo zonke izimpendulo ozidingayo.

Abasebenzisi bangafinyelela inkundla kazwelonke yokuthunyelwe futhi bangasetha izexwayiso zegama lendoda ukuze ungalokothi uphuthelwe yinoma yiliphi itiye mayelana nedethi ongase ube nayo, owake waphila, noma uzakwethu, futhi ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi abayena umkhohlisi. Abasebenzisi bangacela ngokuyimfihlo iseluleko sokuthandana nobudlelwano ukuze bathole ukwesekwa nokunikwa amandla emphakathini wethu wabesifazane abaqinisekisiwe.

Ngakho-ke noma uhlela ukuhlangana kwekhofi noma okuthile okubucayi kakhulu, itiye ikunikeza ukuzethemba kokuqhubekela phambili nosuku lwakho.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi nihlangana kanjani, ngezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola, abangani, noma ithuba lokuhlangana, Itiye nabasebenzisi bayo bakusiza ukuthi uphole ngokuphephile—okwandisa amathuba akho okuphumelela kokuphola.

Itiye liwuhlelo lokusebenza oluphelele uma usebenzisa izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola ezifana ne-Tinder, Bumble, Match, noma Hinge—okukunikeza isendlalelo sokuphepha nokuqonda komphakathi ngaphambi kwedethi yokuqala.